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His Brain, Your Brain, and the Gap Between
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I want to talk about something that most marriage advice glosses over with platitudes about "communication styles." The neurobiological reality is that your brain and his brain process marital conflict differently, and perimenopause widens that gap into a chasm. This isn't about who's right. It's a...
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- Men's cardiovascular systems flood faster during conflict, making stonewalling involuntary rather than chosen
- Sue Johnson's EFT has the largest effect size (1.3) of any couples intervention
- Perimenopause weakens the oxytocin-based felt sense of attachment security, intensifying anxious or avoidant patterns
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