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Free Attraction Quiz

A brief evidence-based assessment to help you understand what is happening with your attraction and what might help.

2 min6 questionsBased on Custom compositeFree & private

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Understanding Your Attraction

A brief evidence-based assessment to help you understand what is happening with your attraction and what might help.

Your severity level — mild, moderate, or significant
What’s driving YOUR loss of attraction specifically
A personalized next step from Dr. Wellls

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Free · 5 min · 100% private

This is not a clinical assessment. For medical concerns, consult a healthcare provider.

About This Assessment

Informed by a Cochrane review of 36 RCTs (23,299 women), the ISSWSH expert consensus on desire disorders, Nagoski's Dual Control Model research, and Johnson's EFT clinical data

This attraction quiz uses 6 evidence-based questions informed by the Custom composite to evaluate the severity and impact of loss of attraction on your daily life. Your score is calculated from multiple dimensions including symptom frequency, intensity, and functional impact.

This is a screening tool, not a diagnosis. It draws on validated relationship and sexual medicine research but does not replace clinical assessment or couples therapy. If your results concern you, consult a healthcare provider or licensed therapist.

Understanding Your Score

Your Attraction Pattern: A Shift, Not a Loss(Score 1-3)

What you are experiencing is common and, at this level, likely reflects either the normal maturation of desire or the early stages of a hormonal shift. Acevedo's fMRI research confirms that long-term

Your Attraction Pattern: Multiple Factors at Work(Score 4-6)

You are dealing with more than one thing. That is the most common scenario. Hormonal changes, emotional disconnection, and the normal quieting of early passion can layer on top of each other until the

Your Attraction Pattern: This Deserves Real Attention(Score 7-10)

What you are going through is significant. The level of distress and impact you described tells me this has moved beyond a 'spark' issue into something affecting your identity, your relationship, and

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this attraction quiz measure?

This attraction quiz uses 6 evidence-based questions informed by the Custom composite to assess the severity and impact of loss of attraction on your daily life. It evaluates multiple dimensions including symptom frequency, intensity, and how they affect your wellbeing.

How accurate is this attraction quiz?

This screening tool is informed by the Custom composite, a clinically validated instrument (Nagoski, E. (2015). Come As You Are. Acevedo et al. (2012). Neural correlates of long-term intense romantic love. Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 7(2), 145-159.). While it provides a reliable indication of severity, it is not a diagnostic tool. For clinical diagnosis, consult a qualified healthcare provider.

Is this a medical diagnosis?

No. This is a screening tool, not a diagnosis. It provides an indication of loss of attraction severity that you can discuss with your healthcare provider. For clinical diagnosis, consult a qualified medical professional. You can bring your results to your next doctor visit as a conversation starter.

How long does this attraction quiz take?

This assessment takes approximately 2 minutes to complete. It contains 6 evidence-based questions. Your results are immediate, private, and include personalized recommendations.

What should I do with my results?

Your results include a severity score and personalized recommendations. We suggest: (1) reviewing your score and what it means, (2) reading our in-depth article about loss of attraction at wellls.com/problems/loss-of-attraction, (3) discussing your results with a healthcare provider, and (4) exploring our evidence-based lifestyle medicine recommendations for managing loss of attraction.

Read the full loss of attraction article

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